More and more experts are starting to realize that phone sex is not just for “over sexed lonely men who don’t get it at home”, but for any couple, even the married couples who use this wonderful tool to drum up a little action in their love making.
Some of us girls who have been doing this for a living for a time (years for me
) have long known that it is a great way to connect sexually with a partner. Now it seems that sex therapists have joined in the party, giving advice about a practice that they may themselves have reviled in the past. How fickle is the human heart hey?
“Regular” couples who use phone sex as yet another sexual outlet sometimes take a while to acclimatize themselves with the nature of act, where role play trumps most cards. The issue is of course to over come the initial hang-up that they are somehow “bad actors” feeling uncomfortable with the perceived role they try to play.
So such restriction though when you call a phone sex professional. Not only will she know what to say to make you at ease, but more importantly will ask the right questions as to what turns you on, what you like and what makes you feel good.
Take Debbie for example who writes in one of her articles about what she does before her phone sex “shift” starts”
Yes, I like attention to details, the little things that make a conversation so much more interesting, so much more arousing. Like wearing the right clothing for starters. Depending on the mood of day, you will find me dressed in silky negligees, smooth touch over my skin, sensual, expecting of the touch that I never deprive myself from. Other days, when domination is the name of the game, I will dress as a Mistress, such is the life of a dominatrix. Then there are the days when I feel like a slut, ready to be trash, submissive and usable.
Indeed setting the right mood is important and remember that phone sex can be as hot as you want it to be. Nothing is silly or of limit if that’s what you want. It’s a unique way to talk about any fantasy you might have, even if some fantasies may be considered forbidden or taboo.
One of my callers told me this morning that phone sex makes sex all that much better when he and his wife get to “do” it.
Who am I to disagree!
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